Combat Holiday Overeating!

By Michelle May, M.D. from http://www.amihungry.com/

Excerpt: Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat: How to Break Your Eat-Repent-Repeat Cycle

I love the holidays. For weeks, our family has been planning for the significant meals we'll share. We're each assigned to bring the traditional dishes we've become known for-and with our large family, there's always plenty. During the blessing my uncle always gives thanks for the food that nourishes our bodies. Then the nourishment begins!

I know these types of gatherings take place all over the world, year after year. The comments are as traditional as the food. "Honey, this is the best turkey you've ever made. Please pass the potatoes and gravy again." "I can't eat another bite or I swear I'll explode." "Alright, just a little sliver of pie then." After dinner people are sprawled out in front of the television, occasionally groaning or dozing off.

As much I love these special occasions, I now know that there's an invisible line that I can cross if I'm not mindful. That line separates a great celebration with wonderful food from an afternoon of discomfort and regret. I constantly remind myself I live in a land of abundance where turkey and potatoes areavailable year round and food will always taste good. So why eat until I'm miserable? Why not enjoy the event and still feel good when it's over?
When you live in a land of abundance, deciding how much food you need to eat is critical for lifelong weight management and health. As importantly, when you eat the perfect amount of food, you'll feel satisfied--just right!

Just Right

Think for a moment about how you feel when you're satisfied. If you're mindful, you'll notice that as you become full, the flavor of the food goes from fabulous to just OK and it gets harder to give food and eating your full attention. You are content, fulfilled, and happy. You feel light and energetic and ready for your next activity.
When you eat more than you need, you'll feel unnecessarily uncomfortable, sleepy and sluggish. Eating too much causes you to feel low energy so you may not want to be active. Of course your body will have no choice but to store the excess as fat. It can also lead to feeling guilty which often leads to even more overeating.

So what can you do to prevent overeating - and what should you do when it happens anyway?

Prevention is the Best Medicine

Before you start eating, decide how full you want to be when you're done. It's fine to decide you want to be stuffed, as long as you've thought about the consequences.
Estimate how much food you'll need to eat to reach that level of fullness. Prepare, serve, or order only as much as you think you'll need; if you were served too much, move the extra food aside.
Before you start eating, visually or physically divide the food in half to create a "speed bump."
Eat mindfully and check your fullness level when you hit that speed bump in the middle of eating, at the end of your meal, and again 20-30 minutes later.

If your goal is to feel satisfied and comfortable, it will help to move away from the table or move the food away from you to signal that you're done as soon as you are get even close.

Am I Full?

Some questions you might want to ask yourself to help you determine how full you are:
How does my stomach feel? Can I feel the food? Is there any discomfort or pain? Does my stomach full, stretched, full orbloated?
How does my body feel? Do I feel comfortable and content? Do my clothes feel tight? Is there any nausea or heart burn?Do I feel short of breath?
How is my energy level? Do I feel energetic and ready for the next activity? Or am I sleepy, sluggish, tired or lethargic?
What do I feel like doing now?
If you've overeaten, sit quietly for a few moments and become completely aware of how you feel. Don't beat yourself up; just focus on the sensations so you'll remember them the next time you're tempted to overeat. You may be less likely to repeat the mistake if you think through the consequences first.

Don't Miss the Lesson

When you realize you've eaten too much, ask yourself, "Why did it happen?" and "What could I do differently next time?" Turn your mistake into a learning experience.

There are a lot of reasons people eat past the point of satisfaction: habits, learned behaviors, past dieting, and mindless eating. For example: "It was a special occasion." You're more likely to overeat if you only give yourself permission to eat enjoyable foods on special occasions. You don't need an excuse to have a wonderful meal-so why use a special occasion as a reason to overeat? Ask yourself, "If this occasion is so special, why would I want to eat untilI feel miserable?"

Here are some of the other holiday triggers you'll learn how to handle in chapter 7 of Eat What You Love, Love What You Eat:

I felt obligated.It tasted good so I just kept eating.I wanted to taste everything.I was afraid I wouldn't get that food again.I saved the best for last.I ate food I didn't enjoy.I wasn't paying attention as I ate.I ate too fast.I mindlessly picked at the leftovers.I had too much on my plate.I was keeping up with someone else.I wanted to get my money's worth.I hate to let food go to waste.

I Ate Too Much! Now What?

Even people who eat instinctively sometimes overeat. However, although they may feel regretful and uncomfortable, they don't typically feel guilty. They don't think, "Well, I've already blown it; I might as well keep eating then start my diet tomorrow." Instead, they just listen to their body and return to eating instinctively by allowing hunger to drive their next cycle. By listening to your body's wisdom, you can compensate for occasional overeating.

After you overeat, wait and see when you get hungry again. Rather than continuing to eat out of guilt or by the clock, listen to your body. It probably won't need food as soon so you may not be hungry for your usual snack or even your next meal.

When you get hungry again, ask yourself, "What do I want?" and "What do I need?" Don't punish yourself or try to compensate for overeating by restricting yourself. If you try to make yourself eat foods you don't really want, you'll feel deprived and fuel your eat-repent-repeat cycle. Trust and respect what your body tells you because it's likely that it will naturally seek balance, variety, and moderation. You might notice that you're hungry for something small or something light-maybe a bowl of soup or cereal, a piece of fruit or a salad.

Lastly, don't use exercise to punish yourself for overeating; instead be active all the time and use the fuel you consume to live a full and satisfying life.

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Don't Wait!

Your health and fitness is NOT something you should wait to start on (like "after the holidays" or "after the new years") it is something you start on IMMEDIATELY and for every day the rest of your life....

Start small, even, and pick one thing that you feel you could improve upon. This could be something like not eating less than two hours before bed time, cutting out fried and high fattening foods, limiting alcoholic beverages.

The worst thing you can do is be all "gung ho" and tell yourself you are going to exercise for 2 hours every day and not eat anything unhealthy. When you go to that holiday party, enjoy a small dessert or a glass of red wine. Do the best you can to get about 30-45 minutes of exercise 3-4 times per week (at least to start off with) instead of trying to commit yourself to 20 hours a week in the gym. Not giving yourself any breaks will, most likely, cause you to get frustrated and lose site of your goals.

Being accoutnable is very important. Find an activity partner or a small group class where the instructor and other members of the class will know if you're not there. Boot Camp U offers small class with lots of personal attention and most of the time, the trainers will send an email or give you a call when you miss to see if everything is OK.

Check out the Boot Camp U website for more info on classes and locations